Thursday, January 14, 2021

My Christmas love letter to my 10 year old

25 December 2020

Dearest Madi,

Merry Christmas my wonderful little nut burger!  Just around the corner is your 11th birthday and Grade 5 😲😲😲!

This year you grew taller, smarter, and more self-sufficient; you are a beautiful, confident young girl (some days I find myself staring at you, watching you smile and your blue eyes sparkle), cooking meals, making tea, scrambling eggs, and sorting out your bedroom décor.

Watching you grew up is both exciting and terrifying. 

Your love for playing with English words, writing, reading, and creating detailed drawings is just wonderful; I see how it captivates your imagination and transports you into another world; this will be the key to your success!  You will fly into high school and beyond.  

I can hear you laughing now, lying in your ‘den’, headphones on.  This is what makes my heart the happiest, to hear you laugh whilst doing your favorite things.

You have always worked hard at school, like really hard; I am sure you have found some things come easily to you and some things do not, just carry on pushing yourself to give it your all.

Remember some friendships will last a lifetime and some will not; and how important it is to surround yourself with friends who make you laugh and who cheer you up. Never leave someone out just because they are different, one day you will most likely be very proud of being different!

I hope 2021 will be an exciting adventure for you, full of new things.  Remember to take a deep breath and go with the flow.  Remember to be brave, do not let nerves or worries stand in your way, just stand proud and go for it!

Remember to have fun, with all the hormones, leg hair and arm pit hair etc. it can make life a little too serious and confusing, emotions do go wild.  One day you can feel on top of the world and another day full of tears; this is all part of being an adolescent and it will all pan out eventually.

I want you to know that I promise I will ALWAYS love you; you are mine and I am yours.

Do you remember the meaning of your name?

Gift of God and Strong Warrior!

‘Do not mistake my quiet and gentle spirit for weakness; for I am a mighty warrior, child of God and my prayers will move mountains!’

 


Much love my little fox! And have a merry merry Christmas!

 

 

 

 

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Photogallery Memoirs of Your 1st 10 months

Just born, my first cuddle with you, beautiful moment!
Christmas eve 2010 at Nana's

'Old Granny Rita' waiting for Christmas eve dinner


This doll belonged to your mommy and you were about the same size!


Terrible colicky tummy!


Precious button nose

With Helen, your mama's school friend

With Lily Mellin at Gonubie River


Our cherub - love you baba


Daddy's favourite picture

With Granny Wendy, look matching stripy tops!

Wrapped up snug in your little 'papoos'

Playing with Jade

With Ouma Lorraine and 'old' Granny Rita

Grandpa Derek and Daddy

My new purple dress from Aunty Karen

With Uncle Tristan and Taylor at East London Zoo


Aunty Stac and Cousin Erin

In the early hours of the morning on the day your were born

Off to theatre Beacon Bay Life Hospital 24 Feb 2010

Your first precious breath

Gosh,  the lights are very bright in here....

Our Muppet

Daddy's first cuddle

Proud Nana and Papa


With your Godmother, Nici Mellin

Mulley's Gully the week-end before you were born

Nahoon River


'Old' granny and Aunty Terri Beacon Bay Hospital

Your cousin James owned this babygrow!!

Aunty Stac still in hospital




Cousin James

This magazine is just too boring...



Blue eyed babe



With your Grandpa Derek



Unit 9 Selborne Green, Berea




'Little me' outfit from Rica, Aunty Lisa's neighbour in Holland - little fists due to colic

Selborne Green

Spit braai at The Mellins - Lee's 40th birthday

1990 - Mama's matric year

Lavender Blue, your stork party 16th December 2010


Your mama, do we look alike???

Proud Daddy

I thought you looked too beautiful in this picture!




Just love my basket of toys at Nana's

With my amazing Aunty Lisa


At Reggies, trying out a walker

With your cousin James, not even a month old!

Daphne, said the most beautiful blessing over your life this day.  Made me cry.  Pictured here, Dot, Cheryl (carer), Julie, Daphne and Stella (residents from Berea Gardens) 

Angel child

With Pearl, our precious maid


Dad with Teddy, Mommy's first dog chosen from the S.P.C.A

Just a week or two ago, you were still inside my belly!!






The first time I laid my eyes on you....  the most magical moment in my life!




The night before...  we were terrified!
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Good book!




















My Godchild Holly Mellin

With Aunty Sue